First Look: To See or Not To See? A Nebraska Wedding Photographer's Take
Hey everyone! Alexa here, from Lexa's Lens, and I'm talking wedding traditions today – specifically, the first look. It's a question I get asked a lot by couples planning their Nebraska weddings, so let's dive in.
A first look is that private moment where you and your partner see each other before the ceremony. Think of it as a pre-aisle reveal. It's become super popular, but it's definitely not the only way to do things. So, what's the deal?
The Perks of Peeking Early (First Look Pros)
Let's be real, weddings can be a tad stressful. A first look can seriously chill things out. Think about it: your partner is your anchor, the one person who grounds you. Seeing them before the ceremony can instantly calm those pre-wedding jitters. Plus, getting those portraits done beforehand means you can actually enjoy your cocktail hour and not feel rushed. And the light is usually amazing before the ceremony. Golden hour, anyone? Speaking of golden hour... doing portraits early also frees us up for some seriously fun and relaxed golden hour shots. We can sneak away for some candid, less posed photos that will give you so much variety in your final gallery. It's a chance to capture those genuine, in-between moments. And honestly, it's just a really sweet, intimate moment for the two of you to connect before all the excitement kicks in.
The Case for Tradition (Why Some Skip the First Look)
I totally get it – some couples love the tradition of seeing each other for the first time walking down the aisle. It's that classic, emotional moment, and that's beautiful too! It's all about what feels right for you.
Timeline Talk: The Nitty Gritty
Here's the thing: whether you do a first look or not, the timeline is key. If you're not doing a first look, we need to make sure we have enough time after the ceremony for family photos, wedding party shots, and those gorgeous portraits of just the two of you. This might mean adding some extra photography coverage or going for a package that includes more hours. And honestly, if you're leaning towards that traditional aisle reveal, a summer or fall wedding in Nebraska is your best bet. Those longer days give us so much more daylight to work with after the "I dos," so we can get all those amazing photos without making your guests wait too long for the party to start!
Why Photographers are Low-Key Obsessed with First Looks
Okay, I'll admit it – photographers do tend to love first looks. It's not just about getting more photos (though that's a nice perk!). It's about the light! Golden hour is a photographer's dream. Plus, it lets us get a little more creative and capture some really special moments without feeling rushed.
Winter Wedding Woes (And Why First Looks are Your Friend)
If you're planning a winter wedding in Nebraska, a first look is practically essential. Those winter days are short! The sun sets fast, and we need to maximize the daylight we have. Trust me, you don't want to be taking photos in the dark.
Still Stuck? Let's Chat!
Look, I get it. This is a big decision! If you're torn about the first look, don't hesitate to reach out. I'm happy to chat about your vision, your timeline, and what will work best for your unique wedding day. I'll help you plan everything, whether you're working with a planner or going it solo. Let's make some magic happen!
So, what are your thoughts on first looks? Drop a comment below – I'd love to hear what you're thinking! And if you're looking for a Nebraska wedding photographer who will help you through every step of the process, you know where to find me! 😉
